Believe in God!

An incident has started ruminating in my mind while reading a book. SSP Abrar Hussain Nekokara was born in a small village of Chiniot named Karam Shah. He belongs to the sub-caste of Sheikh-Nekokara. He studied at the Government College Lahore and Quaid-e-Azam University Islamabad. He did M.A in International Relations from Quaid-e-Azam University. Appeared in the CSS exam and successfully qualified. He was strong, courageous, and wise in his official capacity. But he was weak in family relations. He married secretly, and his parents don't know about it.

One of his friends told everything to his parents. They started forcing him to give divorce to his wife. He didn't accede to it, and under that pressure, he became an anxious patient.

Doctors advised him to avoid being alone while monitoring his mental health. But on 13 January 2020, he killed himself in his room with his pistol. He wrote down a note before his suicide. He wrote"

انسان خودکشی اس لیے کرتا ہے جب وہ بیزار ہو جاتا ہے اور اس کو تخلیق کی سمجھ آ جاتی ہے، جب ایک سمجھ دار بندہ اپنی جان لیتا ہے تو اس کی موت پر رویا نہیں کرتے، اس کے فیصلے کا احترام کرتے ہی

"Man commits suicide when he gets bored, and he understands creation. When a wise man takes his own life, do not mourn on his death, only respect his decision".

That's not only the one incident. According to WHO suicide rate in Pakistan was 8.9 by 2019. Of which 13.30% were male, and 4.30% were female. There was more single than married men; the trend was reversed in women. While India's suicide rate is 12.70, most people think India is far worse in suicide attempts. That's not the case; In other words, we are near to climbing that number.

Let's come to the point for which I give you this preface. Why does a person commit suicide?

People attempt suicide for their failures. Everyone knows this shit, but the point is that most people confront non-success, but they succeed from that successfully Because they have the people around them who gave them motivation. Be in the shadow of motivated people. And learn from them how to stay motivated in every situation of life.

Secondly, the thing people out there noticed, I try to jot it down in front of you. We create a fantasy space for every person whom we meet in our daily life. In other words, we are dependent on other people. We don't try to explore ourselves. By which we don't explore the One who feeds all of us; GOD.

Why are we dependent on people? When there is ONE who said that, call me, I will answer you in your time. Then why don't we call him?

Sorry to say, because we believe more in people than GOD. We believe that the person sitting in the parliament will save us or give us a Government job. Who doesn't save himself how that person will save you or secure your job? A silent question to all of you out there.

Just put your best and believe in God. He is the one who prevents you from the hard times of your life. Be kind to others, enjoy every moment of your life, and stay happy.

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